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    December 25

    December 25, 2006

    My father passed away this morning, he finally unload all the pain and rest in peace somewhere else, just like an old man sleeping smily in the bed.   
     
     I would like to take oppuntitiy to said a few words to those fuel me up and give my dad power to fight against the horrible pain of cancer.  Thank you Dr Wong & Dr Lai, Nurses (Mo Suk Yee, Law Mei Lan, Kam Wai Man, Leung, Ng, Chan, Chung.......)  social worker Chan Wing Han and helpers in the ward 3C Heaven of Hope hospital to take care my father in these two months.  All of you are very very kind to all patient and i can feel what's inside is heart, the heart to this career, to serve human.  I can feel my dad was so lucky to be a patient in this ward, this hospital. 
     
    Beside this, i also want to thanks for those who went to / intend to goto hospital for visiting my father and pray for him for peace.  We are human and we should take more consideration to others. 
     
    PS> When we learn what's dead, we understand what's the value of life.   LOVE
    December 24

    Final count down

    The extenion of the last 72 hours.  In this session, nobody know what the exact time frame but the direction is downward sloping.  If you have count down timer, you have to preset the value and after you press start button, it run and when the time reach "0", the alarm will on and let you know it's the time, "times up"
     
    In the previous 72 hours, my father was in a dynamic mode.  He fall in deep sleeping sometime but suddenly will do something very strange and power consumption.  It's the process just like when a baby coming to our world as schedule.  Mother should have to bear the pain for many hours or couple of days.
     
    I hope my father can goto someplace else in peaceful way.
     
    PS> Papa, thank you for your coaching and letting me know what's life from you.  I will keep your words in my heart and pass out your good character to others. I miss you and I love you forever.
    December 21

    Last 72

    In my understanding, last means no more.  What if your wallet got only 72 dollars for you to spend.  Actually it's the basic rule in our life, limited resources against unlimited wants.  What the cost inside is the opportunity cost.  But i will put one more constrain, the time value on it.
     
    I set a count down timer in my mobile yesterday for 72 hours, actually it doesn't have any meaning but if something special happen before the end of this 3 days, this count down will be meaningful.
     
    One of my friend's mother got lung cancer and now she's having chemo treatment, it will be kind if you can give her or those suffering serious illness patient and their family a pray / words to your religion / god.
     
    PS> My count down timer have less than 50hr left, let's taste what if your love's life got only 72 hours, it's really an experience of death, after you know what's death, you will have more understanding of life and you can enjoy your own life.  
    December 14

    Sharing

    Sharing is a kind of devote, it generate satisfaction.  I taste what the old people said.  "Give is better than take!" You feel surplus when you can give, you take because you feel not secure in you soul.   
     
    I will have my first visit to my friend this Friday, what i can share is from my best understanding and experience to inspire him in a cross.  To let him make better preparing for the road ahead.  I like the book from "Mitch Albom" about life!
     
    火車由首站開始出發,一直到達終點站。在中途各個車站,不斷有人上車,有人下車。其實人生就如乘火車一般。每一天,許許多多的人,以各種不同姿態降臨人間,有平凡的、尊貴的、樸素的……就如不同乘客擠進車廂似的。然而,各人都會在各個不同的車站下車,就如離開人世般。無論你多不願下車,最終也要離開。到頭來, 無論你富或貧、貴或賤、男或女、老或幼都難逃此劫。你生前所有名譽、地位、財富都會在瞬間化為烏有, 變為塵土。所以,一般人對死亡都恐懼非常,對死亡避而不談,認為避之則吉,覺得它恐怖、黑暗……

    如果有一天你患了不治之症,將會逐步逐步地步向死神,生命只剩下數個月,那麼你會如何渡過餘生?自怨自艾還是積極樂觀?對於這個問題,相信絕大部人都會不假思索地回答:「當然是積極樂觀!」但試問當事情發生時,又有多少人真的能夠做到呢?

    December 04

    Closer

    "The train is approaching, passenger please stand beyound the yellow line"
     
    What kind of train you expected to arrive?  A chance to leave current situation?  As a lot of people think that they are living in not good condition, they blame this or blame that, they have both bright side and dark side but they only see the dark because they don't know they wear sunglass.  If there is a opportunity train arrived, they will jump on it before it stop, they will give themselves thousand of excuse to support their move.  But actually, nobody know will know the train is going to a better way or worser way.   It just like the sun rise, it bring hopes and have challenge before the sun set, nobody know today will be another 911 or others......
     
    PS> "M" told me that i am foolish and mis-understand of trick, but in my mind, i just do and behave myself in my own CPU class. I will not pass the responsibility to others as not smart enough to understand or accept the truth.